Unleashing Your Potential: Breaking the Barriers to self love

Do you ever feel like no matter what you do, no matter what you accomplish, no matter how you look, no matter how old you are, how young you are, what your gender is, what your race is, you just don't feel like you're good enough? You're not alone. Most people feel that way. And let me explain to you why most people feel that way.

We are born into this world. And in one form or another, we have guardians. For the most part, it's parents, but there are other circumstances where perhaps you're adopted or you are raised by somebody else. And then on top of your guardians, you have other outside influences. Your teachers are outside influences, your friends, your siblings, the media, television, news sources, in today's day and age, social media and more.

And while it's all well intentioned, they all send you one message. You are bombarded with this one message from the day you were born. I'm not good enough. That's the message I send you. You're not good enough. You need to be more. You need to do more. You need to have more in order to feel good enough. Now, look, these people mean well, especially your parents.

They want what's best for you. In some cases, they don't necessarily mean well. If you look at marketing companies, they're trying to sell you on a product and they're trying to tell you that you will feel better by having the product, but right now in your current state, you're not good enough. We are conditioned to believe that we have to accomplish something.

We have to look a certain way according to society. We have to behave a certain way according to society. We have to achieve certain things in order to feel good. Dutifully, we go through life and we try to accomplish these things. We try to look a certain way, we try to feel a certain way, we try to achieve certain things, we try to lose weight when we need to lose weight, we try to empower ourselves when we need to empower ourselves and more.

We still don't feel like we're good enough. And that's because of the message that's being sent to you. There is always a gap between where you are, where you feel you need to be. It's not your fault, but it is your responsibility. It is your responsibility to do something about not feeling like you're good enough.

Why? Because it is one of the four major barriers to self love and self confidence. I'm here in this video to help you break down this I'm not good enough barrier. We'll talk about the other barriers in other videos. If you want more content from me and you're watching this on YouTube, don't forget to hit the like button, hit the subscribe button and the notification button so you don't miss other videos.

But let's get right into it. You understand why we feel like we're not good enough. And this applies in many different areas of our lives. This applies in terms of our physical abilities. I'm not tall enough, I'm too short, or I'm too tall, or I'm not good looking, or I'm good looking enough, or I have blonde hair, or I have brown hair, my eyes are blue and that's not good, or I'm too old, or I'm too young, or I'm too smart, or I'm not smart enough, or I'm not creative enough, or I have a bad memory, or all these other things that we have. This all stems from our experience in growing up and the baggage that we pick up along the way.

Now, when you remove this barrier, when you remove the baggage, when you remove the triggers and all the parts that make you say that you're not good enough, your natural confident self starts to bubble to the surface. You transform from what I call a frustrated law of attraction believer, or if you're not a law of attraction believer, from the rest of society to a spiritual maverick. And that is my goal, to transform you to a spiritual maverick.

Now, you may ask, what in the world is a spiritual maverick? A spiritual maverick does not live by the rest of the rules that society lives. They do not carry themselves that way.

They think, they speak, they act, they believe, and they live differently because they leverage powerful spiritual principles, principles like the law of attraction and others to not only attract or dream life with ease, but also influence others through their presence and their vibe. In the context of self confidence and loving yourself, spiritual Mavericks carry themselves totally differently than the rest of society. 

You see, the rest of society looks outside of themselves for self worth. And for the reasons that we discussed, they are constantly bombarded with this idea that you need to achieve more.

You need to become more. You need to look a certain way. You need to act a certain way. You need to buy certain products in order to reach that pinnacle of self confidence. And they never get there because you can't find self worth outside of yourself. You can only find it from within.

And spiritual Mavericks understand that and recognize that when they don't feel good, they go within. And when they go within, that's where they're fine. They're true love, their true confidence. The rest of society, as a result of looking outside of themselves, are inconsistent in the way they feel about themselves.

They're inconsistent because they are reacting and basically assigning their self worth to what's going on around them. So when times are good, they feel good about themselves, and when times are not so good, they don't. Spiritual Mavericks consistently have a sense a strong sense of self no matter what's going on.

And that's because they find true self worth from within. Nothing changes from within that will cause you to not feel good about yourself or feel good about yourself. So you are consistent as a spiritual Maverick. Spiritual Mavericks do not care what others think about them.

And I don't mean this in an angry way. I mean this in carrying yourself with a sense of self assuredness, if that's the real word. You get what I'm saying? Where you're basically carrying the vibe of, I love you, I appreciate you for thinking about me and for judging me and thinking that I should be or do better, but I don't need you, I don't need your judgments, and I don't care what you say or think because I have a sense of self love and confidence and I know that I am capable of being, doing and having everything. And on top of that, I know that there's a greater part of me that is guiding me through my intuition, and I listen to my intuition, and I love myself as I am.

The rest of society needs to prove themselves. Spiritual Mavericks don't need to prove anything to anyone, no matter what's going on. They are confident in themselves and they don't need to justify their positions. They love everybody, but they don't need to justify themselves at all. So when they're attacked, they don't get defensive like the rest of society does. So this is where I want you to go.

So the question is, how do you remove yourself from this I am not enoughness. You've heard this before. There's books written about I am enough because that's where you want to go.

But very little is said about how to go from feeling like you're not enough to moving towards you are enough. You are a spiritual maverick who finds self worth from within, who feels good about themselves consistently, who does not care what others think, who does not need to prove themselves or justify themselves. The way to do that is to remove the barriers, and I mean the individual barriers.

Again, we won't talk about I am powerless, I am not worthy, or I am flawed at this point. We'll talk about I am not enough. You see, if you don't feel like you're tall enough or that you're too tall or that you're too tall, or that you're too weak, or that you don't have enough stamina or energy or flexibility, speed, or you don't look good, etc. If you don't feel smart enough or that you express yourself well enough or that you have a bad memory or you're not creative, if you don't feel like you're good enough simply because of your age, gender, race, income, nationality, religion, personality, your zodiac sign, or even whether you consider yourself lucky or unlucky.

Those are many barriers, sub barriers that build up the wall of I am not enough. There's many more than that. This is just the surface level stuff, if you will.

A lot of them are subconscious beliefs. How do you get rid of them? Every barrier, every feeling you have of not being enough is an emotion. And the beautiful thing about an emotion is that you can let it go. In fact, that is the most powerful way to deal with these emotions, to break down the barriers. You see, there are three ways to deal with any emotion that you have in this world, and only three ways to deal with it. Number one, you can suppress the emotion.

This is what a lot of people do, especially people who are addicted to perhaps alcohol, drugs, gambling, television, social media, or anything else. They don't want to feel the feelings, so they distract themselves with other things. They drink themselves numb, or they smoke themselves numb, or they watch TV to ignore and suppress the feelings that come. When something bubbles up to the surface like,

Hey, Dave, you're not smart enough because you've heard that the rest of your life or your entire life, you see that is a trigger, a barrier, and most people suppress that feeling and say, No, go down.

I don't want to hear this, so I'm going to shut you out. Unfortunately, it does not get rid of the feeling. It actually lives inside your body and can actually wreak havoc.

So we don't want to suppress our emotions. The second thing we do with our emotions, if we don't suppress them, is we express them. And this is more healthy than suppressing. If you feel angry and you express that anger as opposed to pushing it down, it's far more healthy on your body, but it's still not effective because all you're doing is releasing the pressure. You're not getting rid of that negative emotion.

So the next time that same trigger comes that makes you angry, you're going to have to still deal with it. You're going to either have to express it or suppress it. It's not going away. And so that barrier remains. It's still there. The only way to get rid of it is by letting it go. And this, again, is the third way you deal with emotions is you release the emotion. You see, you don't know it, but you're subconsciously holding on to these emotions, just like I'm holding on to this phone right here.

You don't have to hold on to it, but you are. You just don't even know that you are. You're holding on to it so long, you don't even realize that you're holding on anymore. So what do you need to do? Very simple. Drop it. Now, I'm not going to drop my phone. I'm going to lay it down nicely here. But you get my point.

You simply release, let go of the emotion. And it's easier than you think. People think, Oh, my God. That's really hard. You don't. You just have to recognize it. You have to feel it.

You have to accept the emotion, and then you consciously decide to let it go and it leaves. I know it sounds crazy because it sounds so easy, but it is one of the most effective and not talked about ways of dealing with these barriers. Don't be fooled, everything is a barrier.

Everything is a barrier to manifesting your desires with ease and stopping you from becoming that spiritual maverick that you want to become. What you need to do is this, as you go about your day and that inner critic comes in there and says, You're not good enough, you're not strong enough, you're not good looking enough, you're not smart enough, you have a bad memory, and all these other things that you tell yourself,

You're the wrong age, you're the wrong gender, you're the wrong race, you don't have enough income, you're the wrong nationality, religion, etc.

Every time these triggers come up, it's a gift because it's an opportunity to let them go and you can let them go on the spot in this very powerful way of breaking down this barriers to self love.

And believe me, if you do this, you will naturally become more confident. And again, in other videos, I'll talk about I am powerless, I am not worthy, and I am flawed, but we will not focus on that. But believe me, knocking down this barrier alone will make a big difference in terms of how you feel about yourself. I hope you found this helpful, but I want you to understand that what I'm showing here is just one part of one step of my nine step total manifestation, mastery program. 

And this is a unique program, one that you've probably never seen before, to help people like you, frustrated law attraction believers and spiritual people remove all of their barriers, not just to self worth, but all of their barriers so that they can transform into that spiritual maverick and manifest their desires with ease.

We focus on your control over your future, on how you feel about yourself, on faith, on purpose, on relationships, on money, on anxieties and fears, that's what AF stands for.

On spiritual tools like meditation and visualization and on connecting with your best, true, highest self. If you want to learn more about how to transform yourself, how to find radical self love, I created a one page radical self love cheat sheet. All you have to do is click on the link either below or in a bio, if you're watching this on Instagram, and download the cheat sheet and associated free training. I know this looks a little bit overwhelming.

I take you through all of this stuff so that you understand exactly what you need to do to move from a frustrated law of attraction believer who has low self esteem to one of a spiritual maverick who has high self esteem, who loves themselves, unconditionally, and going back to here, does not care what other thinks, finds true self worth from within, is consistent, does not need to prove anything to anyone, and loves everyone and does not need to justify themselves.

Go ahead and download this cheat sheet and free training now. Get started on your transformation. It is the most effective thing that you can do today. It is completely free to do this, and it'll start you on your journey towards becoming that awesome spiritual maverick that I know is within you, where you don't have to live by the rules of the rest of society anymore.

Hope you found this helpful as it goes a long way to breaking the barriers to self love. Have yourself an awesome day. See you next time.