How to stop the fear of losing what you manifested

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How to stop the fear of losing what you on...

Hey, Dave Ash here from

Hope you're having a great day.

I just wanted to take a few minutes here today to talk to you about a specific issue that a lot of people come running into when it comes to law of attraction.

If you don't know me, I am a self appointed law of attraction guru, because nobody else is going to appoint me as a law of attraction guru, but not in the way that you think.

I don't help people in traditional ways when it comes to the law of attraction.

Like, here, go visualize and manifest something. In fact, I have a completely different approach, which is I help people remove the barriers, the internal barriers that are blocking them from manifesting their desires with ease.

You know what kind of barriers I'm talking about? Not being able to control. Gain control of your mind, not feeling worthy to receive what the universe is giving you, lacking faith that the universe is going to deliver, having a lack mindset when it comes to issues of money, dealing with anxieties and fears, that kind of stuff.

And once you can remove those barriers, then you're able to manifest much more easily.

It won't be easy, but you can manifest much more easily.

One of the issues a lot of people come up to me with is once they manifest something that they desire; a partner, money, a job, whatever it might be, the house of their dreams, they almost immediately shift from one of Elation. "Yay I manifested this" to fear, "oh, my God, I'm going to lose whatever it is I just manifested." I'm going to lose the partner, I'm going to lose the job or whatever it might be.

And so it creates a split energy vibrationally speaking, because on one hand, you're like, yeah, I just manifested this. On the other hand, the fear starts to take over.

And because the law of attraction is one of cause and effect, what happens is you emit that vibe and it can come back to you.

And I've been there. I've been there many times where I've manifested something I desired and almost immediately fell into that space of fear. So I get where you're coming from. It's scary, right? Because you're like, well, I just have this thing, and it's so awesome. What if I lose it? What if I'm a failure?

What if this doesn't work? What if whatever. And I've learned over the years how to deal with this issue, and that's what I'm going to talk about in today's video.

But before I do, I just wanted to let you know about my course, Law of Attraction Breakthrough. And it helps people just like you, gain control of your mind and gain control of your vibe without any overwhelm or doubt so that you can begin to manifest the life of your dreams.

If you're interested in the course, it's at a huge discount. I'm talking 97% off right now and you can go check it out at That again is, Okay, so let's talk about today's issue. And today's issue actually reminded, me when I was reading a book recently by Michael Neal. If you don't know Michael Neal, he's a spiritual coach. He focuses a little bit on law of attraction, but more spirituality in general.

And this is a book called SuperCoach.

And in the book, he was talking about how he took on a client; a client who recently leveraged law of attraction to manifest a partner. And he came to her and said, well, you seem to be fine. I mean, you seem to be manifesting some cool things. What are you here for, right? So he said, and I'll quote, "when I asked her what she hoped to get out of our work together, she was quiet for a few moments before someone shyly telling me, I'm terrified that it will stop working and I'll go back to being miserable and alone." And Michael Neal responded back in general to the reader.

And it was the same response I have, which is the reason why you become terrified once you manifest something that you desire is because you have the wrong intent when it comes to the law of attraction. Let me explain what I mean. You see, when you use law of attraction as a tool to just get things, to acquire things, then all you're doing is replacing the law of attraction with some other self help process which is there to help you achieve a goal, for example.

Now, don't get me wrong. It's beautiful marketing. If you were in the law of attraction space, the marketing couldn't be any better. Hey, leverage this universal law to get everything you desire. I mean, who doesn't want to hear that? But the reality is a lot different than that.

The reality is that no matter how much you manifest, whether it's millions of dollars, whether it's a partner, whether it's your dream job or dream business, whether it's that beautiful house in the corner with the grotto pool; or whatever it is, it doesn't matter what it is. When you manifest those things, it is quickly replaced with another desire. In fact, that's going to be the case for the rest of your life and beyond. But we won't talk about that today.

And you say, well, what are you talking about, Dave? What do you mean? Let's say you want to start a business and then you come up with a business idea. You come up with a business idea, and then you create a prototype for a product. Does it end there? Absolutely not. It keeps going. You want to go and test the product. You want to find a manufacturer for a product.

You want to consider marketing angles. You want to figure out pricing. All of these other issues come up, all of these other desires come up. And that's kind of how it works in the world in general. Right? Your desires never end. And that's because we're beings that are intended to expand and grow on a consistent basis.

We never, ever stop.

And this is totally normal by the way. There's nothing wrong with you for desiring more. The challenge is when you base your happiness on the fulfillment of that desire, you're never going to be truly satisfied or happy because a new desire takes its place.

And so you're kind of like on a hamster wheel, just keep going and going and going and never actually reaching that place of happiness that you desire. Okay?

So if you're trying to use law of attraction to acquire things, then you're kind of missing the point, which is this stuff is nice, but it's not the source of your happiness. And the only reason you want anything is because you think it's going to make you happy in the manifestation of it. Right? But you never actually get it done because our desires never stop.

You won't be human if your desires stop. Okay, so the best way to deal with this issue is to, first of all, let go of two things. Let go of the fact that any happiness has anything to do with what you manifest outside of you, okay? And let go of the idea that you're going to get it done.

That you're going to finally reach a panacea and say, I've manifested everything I want. I'm good to go. Then what happens? You've got to let go of those ideas. Happiness is not predicate on what you manifest. I don't know if I use that word properly anyways. It's not dependent. Let's use that one. It's not dependent on what you manifest outside of you, number one. And number two, you're never going to get it done anyways.

So what do you do? You need to change the intent when it comes to law of attraction. Instead of using law of attraction from the perspective of acquiring that what you desire, you need to use the law of attraction as an opportunity to express who you really are. And you say, what are you talking about? Well, when a new desire is born and you embark on a journey to the fulfillment of that desire, it's the journey that presents the opportunity to express your highest, most grandest version of you, your true self, your true power, if you will.

Every journey, and life is all a journey anyways. I know it sounds very cliche, but every journey is an opportunity to express who you really are. The Grandest Version And if you go, what does that look like? Close your eyes for just a moment and pause this video if you want. If you can pause it, close your eyes for just a moment and imagine the greatest, grandest version of you that you possibly can.

That's what I'm talking about.

And that's what you can step into in the journey towards the fulfillment of whatever it is that you desire. Okay, so that's how you change that fear that pipes in or that comes in every time you manifest something. Don't do it to acquire stuff and don't do it to hold on to stuff. Nothing in this world is permanent. So holding on to something. You don't own anything anyways.

When we leave this world, we leave everything behind.

All the money, the partners, the business, everything you've acquired, it's all left behind. And don't use that as something to be depressed about. Use it as something to appreciate right here, right now.

Appreciate everything you have and also recognize that the intent is more than just "I need to acquire this stuff." Shift your mindset and when you shift your mindset and when you recognize that happiness has nothing to do with anything outside of you, but rather all comes from within, then you are able to let go of this fear because you're doing it for a completely different reason. 

So that's the intent. In future videos, I'll talk about how do you find happiness and stuff like that? But the intent of this video is very simple. It's how do you deal with that fear that kicks in once you manifest something, you're not in it to be happy, you cannot be dependent on something or someone outside of you to be happy. That's never a good long term strategy, if you will.

All right, I hope you enjoyed this video again. If you're interested in my course Law of Attraction Breakthrough, where I help people gain control of their minds and their vibe without any of the doubt or overwhelm So they can begin to manifest their desires, their dream life.

If you will then go to the for more information and I'll see you in a future video, take care.

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